The Wooing of Emer
mythology by: Traditional Irish
Source: Ulster Cycle

In the days when heroes walked the green hills of Ireland, there lived a young warrior whose fame had spread to every corner of the land. Cú Chulainn, the Hound of Ulster, was already renowned for his incredible strength and courage, but his heart remained untouched by love. That was soon to change when he first beheld Emer, the most beautiful maiden in all of Ireland.
The Meeting at Forgall’s Dún
Emer was the daughter of Forgall the Wily, a chieftain known throughout the land for his cunning and his fierce protection of his family. She lived in a great dún on the plains of Brega, surrounded by her foster-sisters and attendants. But Emer was no ordinary maiden—she possessed the six gifts that made a woman perfect: beauty, voice, sweet speech, wisdom, needlework, and chastity.
Her beauty was legendary. Her hair flowed like rivers of gold, her eyes sparkled like stars reflected in clear water, and her skin was as white as fresh snow with a blush like the bloom of roses. But more than her physical beauty, it was her wit and wisdom that set her apart from all other women.
One spring morning, as Cú Chulainn was traveling through the lands of Leinster, he came upon Forgall’s fortress. From the ramparts, he heard the sound of laughter—musical and bright like the song of larks at dawn. Curious, he approached the walls and saw a group of young women at their needlework in the courtyard.
Among them sat Emer, her golden hair catching the sunlight as she embroidered intricate patterns on silk. When she looked up and saw the young warrior watching from beyond the gate, their eyes met, and in that instant, both felt the lightning strike of true love.
“Who is this warrior who watches us with such intensity?” Emer asked her foster-sister.
“That is Cú Chulainn of Ulster,” came the reply. “They say he is the greatest champion in all of Ireland, though he is still young in years.”
Emer studied the hero with interest. She had heard tales of his deeds, but seeing him in person, she was struck not only by his noble bearing but also by the intelligence that shone in his eyes.
Cú Chulainn approached the group of women with the courtesy due to noble ladies. “Greetings, daughters of kings and chieftains,” he said, his voice carrying the music of confidence and respect. “May your day be filled with joy and your work bring you satisfaction.”
“And greetings to you, son of Lugh,” Emer replied, recognizing the divine heritage that marked the young hero. “What brings the Hound of Ulster to our peaceful lands?”
“I travel seeking worthy challenges and noble deeds,” Cú Chulainn answered. “But I find myself drawn to remain here by beauty and wisdom beyond compare.”
The two began to speak, and their conversation was unlike any that had ever been heard. They spoke in riddles and cryptic phrases, each testing the other’s wit and knowledge. Their words danced around each other like paired swords in the hands of master warriors.
“Tell me, fair maiden,” Cú Chulainn said, “where does the sun make its bed at night?”
“In the same place where your courage rests when you are not facing danger,” Emer replied with a smile that was both challenge and invitation. “For both return each day stronger than before.”
For hours they spoke thus, each delighting in the other’s intelligence and quick wit. The foster-sisters watched in amazement, for never had they seen Emer so animated in conversation with any man.
As the sun began to set, Cú Chulainn knew he could delay no longer. “Lady Emer,” he said, “your beauty has captured my eyes, but your wisdom has captured my heart. Will you consent to be my wife?”
Emer’s expression grew serious. “I am honored by your proposal, noble champion. But I will not marry any man who has not proven himself worthy of me through great deeds. You must undergo trials that would test even your legendary skills.”
“Name them,” Cú Chulainn said without hesitation. “There is no challenge I would not face for your sake.”
“First,” Emer said, counting on her slender fingers, “you must perform a feat of arms that surpasses all your previous deeds. Second, you must prove your worthiness by training with the greatest warrior-teacher in the world. And third…” she paused, her eyes twinkling with mischief, “you must win the approval of my father, Forgall the Wily.”
Cú Chulainn laughed, recognizing the magnitude of these challenges. “Lady, you have set tasks that would daunt a god. But for your love, I will accomplish them all.”
Forgall’s Opposition
That evening, when Forgall returned to his dún, he quickly learned of the young hero’s visit and proposal. The chieftain’s face darkened with anger.
“That young upstart thinks to steal my daughter!” he raged. “Emer is too precious to be given to any warrior, no matter how famous. She shall remain here, protected and cherished.”
But Forgall was too clever to openly oppose Cú Chulainn, knowing the hero’s reputation for both prowess and vengeance. Instead, he devised a cunning plan.
The next morning, Forgall appeared before Cú Chulainn in the guise of a friend and advisor. “Young champion,” he said with false warmth, “I have heard of your desire to marry my daughter. While I am honored by your interest, surely a hero of your stature deserves the finest training before taking a wife?”
“What do you suggest?” Cú Chulainn asked, though he sensed deception in the older man’s words.
“There is a warrior-woman named Scáthach who lives on the Isle of Skye in Scotland,” Forgall explained. “She is the greatest teacher of martial arts in the world. Many heroes seek her training, but few survive her trials. If you were to master her teachings, you would be truly invincible.”
Forgall’s true plan was simple: he hoped that Scáthach would kill the young hero, ridding him of the threat to his daughter’s remaining with him forever.
But Cú Chulainn, eager to prove himself worthy of Emer, readily agreed to the challenge. “I will seek out this Scáthach and learn from her. When I return, I will be worthy of the most precious jewel in Ireland.”
The Journey to Scáthach
The journey to the Isle of Skye was perilous beyond imagining. Cú Chulainn had to cross treacherous seas, navigate through monster-haunted forests, and traverse the deadly Bridge of Leaps—a narrow span that connected Scáthach’s island fortress to the mainland.
The Bridge of Leaps was enchanted so that when any warrior stepped upon it, the bridge would rear up like a wild horse, hurling the would-be student into the churning waters below. Many heroes had perished attempting to cross it.
But Cú Chulainn’s supernatural abilities served him well. Using his salmon-leap, a magical bound that could carry him incredible distances, he sailed over the bridge’s defenses and landed safely on the island.
Scáthach herself was a sight to behold—a warrior-woman of unearthly beauty and terrifying skill. Her hair was dark as raven’s wings, her eyes held the wisdom of ages, and her bearing commanded respect from gods and mortals alike.
“So,” she said when Cú Chulainn appeared before her, “another young hero comes seeking my training. Tell me, boy, what makes you think you can survive what defeats others?”
“I am driven by love,” Cú Chulainn replied simply. “I must become worthy of the most perfect woman in Ireland.”
Scáthach studied him with eyes that seemed to see into his very soul. “Love, you say? That is either the strongest motivation or the greatest weakness. We shall see which.”
Training with Scáthach
For a year and a day, Cú Chulainn trained under Scáthach’s ruthless tutelage. She taught him feats of arms that no other warrior knew: how to leap from spear-point to spear-point, how to fight while balanced on the edge of a sword, and how to strike nine men with a single blow.
Most importantly, she taught him the use of the Gáe Bolga, a terrible spear that had thirty barbs and could only be thrown with the foot. Once cast, it was said that the Gáe Bolga never missed its target and could not be healed by any medicine.
But Scáthach’s training was not just in warfare. She also instructed him in the deeper mysteries: how to see the truth behind illusions, how to speak with the spirits of the dead, and how to understand the language of birds and beasts.
During his time on the island, Cú Chulainn also encountered Aífe, Scáthach’s sister and rival, who was nearly her equal in skill. Through a combination of cunning and prowess, Cú Chulainn defeated Aífe in single combat and took her as his lover for a time.
When his training was complete, Scáthach herself was amazed at what her student had accomplished. “You have mastered arts that took me decades to learn,” she told him. “There is no warrior in the world who can stand against you now.”
But as Cú Chulainn prepared to depart, Scáthach made a dire prophecy: “Great hero, you will win your heart’s desire, but your life will be glorious and brief. The gods have marked you for great deeds and an early grave.”
“Let it be so,” Cú Chulainn replied. “A short life filled with honor is preferable to a long one spent in mediocrity.”
The Return and Victory
When Cú Chulainn returned to Ireland, he found that Forgall had not been idle. The wily chieftain had surrounded his dún with additional defenses and posted guards to prevent any approach to his daughter.
But such measures were useless against a hero trained by Scáthach. Using his supernatural abilities, Cú Chulainn leaped over the triple walls of the fortress in a single bound, landing in the courtyard like a thunderbolt from the sky.
The guards rushed to attack him, but they might as well have tried to fight the wind itself. Cú Chulainn’s new skills made him unstoppable. He defeated them all without taking a single wound, using only the flat of his blade to avoid unnecessary killing.
Forgall himself appeared, sword in hand, but one look at the transformed hero told him that resistance was futile. In desperation, he tried to flee, but slipped from the walls of his own fortress and fell to his death.
Emer appeared in the courtyard, radiant with joy at her beloved’s return. “You have proven yourself beyond all doubt,” she said, running into his arms. “You are worthy of any woman’s love, including mine.”
The Wedding
The wedding of Cú Chulainn and Emer was celebrated throughout Ulster and beyond. King Conchobar himself presided over the ceremonies, and warriors and nobles came from every corner of Ireland to witness the union of the greatest hero and the most perfect woman.
Emer brought to the marriage not only her own considerable gifts but also a dowry worthy of her station: fifty maidens as attendants, herds of cattle, fields of golden grain, and treasures beyond counting.
But more precious than any material wealth was the love between the couple. Emer proved to be not just a beautiful wife but a wise counselor and steadfast companion. She understood her husband’s nature and supported his heroic calling, even when it brought danger to their door.
“You are my soul’s other half,” Cú Chulainn told her on their wedding night. “With you beside me, I feel complete for the first time in my life.”
“And you are my heart’s chosen champion,” Emer replied. “Whatever trials may come, we will face them together.”
The Test of True Love
Their love was soon tested when other women sought to win Cú Chulainn’s affections. Beautiful fairies, enchanting sorceresses, and noble maidens all tried to seduce the great hero away from his wife.
But Emer’s hold on her husband’s heart proved unbreakable. When the fairy woman Fand tried to entice Cú Chulainn to her otherworldly realm, Emer confronted her rival directly.
“You may offer him magical pleasures and eternal youth,” Emer told Fand, “but I offer him something more precious—true love that accepts him as he is, mortal strengths and weaknesses alike.”
Fand, recognizing the truth in Emer’s words, withdrew her claim. “You are indeed worthy of such a hero,” she said. “Your love is stronger than any magic I could weave.”
The Legacy of Their Love
The love between Cú Chulainn and Emer became legendary throughout Ireland. Bards sang of how their devotion remained constant through all trials, how they supported each other through joys and sorrows alike.
Even when fate finally claimed the great hero, as Scáthach had prophesied, Emer’s love proved stronger than death. She composed a lament so beautiful that it moved the very stones to weep, and her grief was so pure that it became a standard by which all true love was measured.
Their story reminds us that the greatest victories are not won on battlefields but in the human heart. True love, like true heroism, requires courage, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment. And when such love is found, it becomes a treasure more precious than all the gold and glory in the world.
The tale of Cú Chulainn’s wooing of Emer continues to inspire lovers throughout the ages, proving that when two souls recognize each other as their perfect match, no obstacle is too great to overcome, and no challenge too difficult to face together.
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